[PowerPoint slide 1]
Who am I? On one level it's a relatively simple question to answer - I'm [change the following to fit your own name and personal circumstances] Mr Smith. To my wife I'm 'Steve', to my mother I'm 'Stephen'; to my children I'm 'Daddy'. There are lots of different ways that people identify me, but those are all just names, they don't really get to the heart of who I am. We're going to watch a clip now from the Christmas 2005 episode of Doctor Who. From time to time in Doctor Who, after the Doctor has suffered a particularly close encounter with death, or when the actor gets fed up with playing the role, the Doctor regenerates. This means that he gets a completely new body and a new personality. This scene takes place shortly after his most recent regeneration, and the Doctor is faced with the question 'Who are you?'
[Play the clip from Doctor Who: The Christmas Invasion:
Start time: 0.39.30 (in chapter 8 of the DVD)
End time: 0.41.43
Clip length: Two minutes and 13 seconds
The clip starts with the TARDIS door opening to reveal the Doctor (David Tennant), resplendent in pyjamas and a dressing gown. The first line is the Doctor saying 'Did you miss me?' Stop the clip after the Doctor says 'And how am I going to react when I see this?' For a much shorter version, start at 0.41.04, with the alien saying 'If I might interrupt…'
If you are unable to use the clip, say the following as an alternative:
From time to time in Doctor Who, after the Doctor has suffered a particularly close encounter with death, or when the actor gets fed up with playing the role, the Doctor regenerates. This means that he gets a completely new body and a new personality. In the Christmas Day 2005 episode of Doctor Who, David Tennant took over the role of the Doctor from Christopher Eccleston, and in one scene, the new Doctor emerges from the TARDIS and comments on the fact that he just doesn't know who he is - is he rude? Is he ginger? Is he funny? He just doesn't know.]
[PowerPoint Slide 2]
None of us are ever likely to go through as dramatic a change as the Doctor - we don't completely change our body and personality overnight, and we aren't aliens from another planet - well, apart perhaps from [add name of colleague here if this is in any way appropriate, or just leave the joke out]. But all of us still face the same problem that the Doctor faced - working out just who we really are. Some people never worry about questions like that. Maybe you don't ever wonder who you are, how you would define yourself - and if not, that's just fine. But maybe you sometimes lie awake wondering what kind of a person am I? Amid all the different labels that other people put on me, just who is the real me? [click to reveal each of the illustrations on PowerPoint Slide 2 as you go through the following list of qualities] Am I funny? Am I serious? Am I brave? Am I a coward? Am I a good friend? Am I sexy? Am I clever?
We may or may not know the answers to these questions, but the Book of Psalms in the Bible suggests that God does. Psalm 139 reads like this:
[PowerPoint Slide 3]
O Lord, you have searched me and you know me.
You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar.
You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways.
Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely, O Lord.
Christians believe that God knows us completely: all our good points as well as all of our weaknesses and failings. He knows the things that we are proud of, and the things that we are embarrassed about - and he loves us completely, just as we are. [PowerPoint slide 4] We may still be working towards an answer to the question 'Who Am I?', but if the Bible is right, then God already knows who we are - we are people that God made, and we are people who God loves.
A Christian might go further. Christians also believe that humans are made in God's image. This doesn't mean that we look like God - long white beard, flowing robes - but it means that we have some common characteristics with God. We have a sense of right and wrong; we have free will and can make our own choices; and we are made for relationships. Most of all, Christians believe that we get the best understanding of who we are when we answer that question in terms of our relationship with God.